In this lesson, you can learn how to talk about your family in English. Do you have a big family? What do you like doing when you spend time with your family? Talking about your family can be a good way to start a conversation in English, so it’s useful if you know what to say and have some questions to ask.
My immediate family is quite small, because I’m an only child. My mum is one of five children, so I have a lot of cousins, who are kind of like my brothers and sisters.
There are six people in my immediate family: my parents, my brother and his wife, my sister and me. I have a lot of other relatives, but they live in Canada so we don’t see them often.
4. Talking about Your Children
Do you have children? Let’s see what you can say:
I have three kids: two girls and a boy.
We have a newborn son.
We have one daughter, and my wife’s expecting our second child.
As always, you should add details to make your answers longer and more interesting:
I have three kids: two girls and a boy. Our eldest daughter has just started secondary school, and the two younger ones are still in primary school.
We have a newborn son. He’s just three weeks old now, so we’re still getting used to things!
We have one daughter, and my wife’s expecting our second child. We don’t know if it’s a boy or a girl, but we’ll find out in three months.
5. Talking about Your Relationship with Your Family
Finally, let’s add some information about how often you see your family, and what you like to do together. For example:
I’m very close to my family. We have lunch together every weekend.
I see my older brother once a week; we play tennis or basketball together.
I try to spend as much time as possible with my kids.
What now? You should know the answer: add more details!
I’m very close to my family. We have lunch together every weekend at my grandmother’s house. She always cooks something delicious!
I see my older brother once a week; we play tennis or basketball together. I don’t see my other brother so often, because he lives overseas, although we talk on Skype every so often.
I try to spend as much time as possible with my kids. We play cards, watch films, or go to the park if the weather’s nice.
6. Making a Longer Answer
Now you should be able to make a longer answer talking about your family. You should be able to talk about your relatives, your brothers and sisters, your children if you have any, and your relationship with your family.
Let’s look at a sample answer:
There are five people in my immediate family, although my extended family is quite large. I have two sisters, both younger, so I’m the oldest child. I don’t have kids yet but I’d like to have a big family one day. I see my parents and my sisters quite often, because we all live near each other, although I don’t see my other relatives that much.
OK? Could you make an answer like this? Let’s look at one more sample answer first:
I come from a big family: I’m the fifth child, and I have three brothers and one sister. They’re all close to each other in age, but there’s a big gap between them and me. I don’t have children, but I have lots of nieces and nephews! I don’t see my family often because I live in a different country, but I speak to them regularly and we all get together once or twice a year, which is always very noisy but lots of fun.
What about you? Try to make a longer answer talking about your family. Use the vocabulary and ideas from the lesson to help you. Next time you talk about your family in English, hopefully you’ll have lots to talk about!