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Question 1 of 13
Which is the correct phrase related to being confident?
Question 2 of 13
In the last question, you should have answered “fake it till you make it”. What does this mean?
Question 3 of 13
What things do many language learners do wrong when they lack confidence? Choose two answers.
The incorrect answer is something you should do in order to be more confident.
Question 4 of 13
True or false: speaking at a high, clear volume is a sign of confidence.
Question 5 of 13
True or false: native people always speak fast, so you should try to do it too.
Question 6 of 13
True or false: if you speak more slowly, you’ll make fewer mistakes than if you try to speak fast.
Question 7 of 13
“Sorry. I know my English is really bad.”
Why is it not a good idea to say this? Choose two answers.
Question 8 of 13
True or false: your listeners need to be told how good your English is before you speak – they will not be able to judge for themselves.
Question 9 of 13
True or false: most listeners will make no judgement about your level of English, because it doesn’t matter to them.
Question 10 of 13
True or false: you will often speak English better than your listener speaks your language, so they might actually be impressed by how good your English is!
Question 11 of 13
True or false: even if you can’t stop yourself from feeling a lack of confidence, you can stop yourself from saying something, so you should never apologise for your English.
Question 12 of 13
In part four of the lesson, we suggested setting yourself three challenges for three situations. Each situation should have an easy, medium and hard challenge. Mark the following challenges as easy, medium or hard.
Situation: making a presentation in your class
Plan to speak about a hobby you’d like to do; write some key ideas and practise saying them in full sentences, but do not write the sentences down; use your notes of key ideas in the lesson; invite your classmates to ask you questions afterwards.
Arrange for a partner to ask you questions about your favourite hobby; write down the questions and your answers; practise saying your answers by yourself; take your written answer to the class to help you when you are speaking.
Plan to speak about your hobby by yourself for one minute; write down and practise your speech and try to memorise it; prepare a list of key words to use in the lesson and try to speak from memory.
Question 13 of 13
In part five of the lesson, we suggested keeping a journal to record the things you’re afraid of, with space to record what actually happens when you try speaking English.
Here are four fears related to making a presentation in your class. Put the four statements about what actually happened next to the relevant fears.
I had prepared notes of what I wanted to say, so I knew I could look at them if this happened – but I didn’t have to!
I had to repeat myself sometimes, but I was able to say everything quite well in the end.
I did a bit, but some classmates said they liked the same hobby, so I knew they were interested in my ideas.
Some did but others made the same mistakes as me – and I didn’t think they were idiots!
I’ll forget an important word.
I’ll find it hard to say the words correctly.
I’ll feel really nervous.
Other people in the class will speak better than me.
Have you heard it? If not, can you guess what it means?
It means that confidence starts on the outside. You need to act confident and sound confident, even if you don’t feel confident.
So, if you lack confidence when you speak English, you have to ‘fake it’. You have to act confident, even though you don’t feel confident.
This is important to understand: there isn’t some sort of magical switch you can flip and suddenly feel confident. Feeling more confident is a journey which will take time and work.
Remember: to improve your English confidence, you need to accept that you might not feel confident right away. That’s okay! The first steps towards confidence in your spoken English are on the outside.
So, what can you actually do?
2. Control Your Speaking
When you’re not confident in your English, you’ll probably do three things:
One: you’ll speak too quietly.
Two: you’ll try to speak too fast.
Three: you’ll speak in fragments, using single words and phrases instead of full sentences.
“Martin, did you have a good weekend?”
“Not bad. Just stayed at home.”
Did that sound, or look, confident? Not really!
Let’s try again.
“Hey Martin, did you have a good weekend?”
“It was kind of boring, actually! I didn’t go anywhere or do anything. What about you?”
See the difference? Even though I still had a boring weekend and didn’t have anything interesting to say, I was still able to sound confident and comfortable.
There are three things you can do here, but before you start, I’d like you to do something: record yourself talking in English for one minute.
Introduce yourself and talk a little about your life. Go on, pause the video and do it now, then come back!
Listen to the recording. How does it sound? Do you sound confident?
Next, let’s get back to what you can do to sound more confident in English.
First, control the volume of your voice. Confident people speak at a high, clear volume. You don’t have to shout, but your voice should be loud enough that anyone in the same room could understand you clearly.
Secondly, control the speed of your voice. When you’re nervous, it’s normal to try to speak faster.
If you try to speak too fast, you’ll sound less confident, and also make more mistakes.
Slowing down will help you in many ways. You’ll sound more confident, you’ll be easier to understand when you speak English, and you’ll make fewer mistakes.
Finally, speak in full sentences. If you’re not confident in your spoken English, you’ll try to say as little as possible. To sound confident, you should show that you’re not scared of speaking English. So, use full sentences.
Now it’s time to make another recording. Even better, make three recordings. Each should be around one minute. Talk about yourself and your life, like you did before.
The first time, focus on the volume of your voice. Try to speak loudly and clearly.
The second time, focus on speed. Try to slow down and speak at a clear, controlled pace.
The third time, focus on speaking in full sentences.
Listen to the recordings. Compare them to the first recording you made. Do they sound better?
Next, try to use these points when you talk English in real life. Remember, you might not feel confident, but you will sound more confident.
If you sound more confident, people will respond to you differently. Try it—you might be surprised how much difference these simple points make!
When you see how people respond to you, you’ll feel more confident in your English.
No, seriously, why say these things? What’s the point?
When you say things like this, you get two results:
One: you reinforce your negative feelings by expressing them.
Two: you show the person you’re talking to that you don’t believe in yourself. And, if you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else?
Neither of these is a good result. So, what’s the solution?
Very simple: stop apologising for your English!
It’s a waste of time. First of all, if you’re talking to me, and your English is really bad, I can see that already. I don’t need you to tell me.
More importantly, most people won’t judge you for your English. Most people in the world aren’t interested in your English at all.
If someone’s talking to you, they’re talking to you to be friendly, or because they want something from you, or because they’re interested in your ideas. They’re not talking to you to see how good your English is.
And even if the person you’re talking to is judging your English, what can you do about it at that moment?
Nothing at all.
So, why apologise? Why feel bad? It doesn’t help.
Okay, maybe you can’t help feeling bad, though you shouldn’t.
But, you can control what you say. Don’t apologise for your English. Never apologise for your English.
Here’s something about me. I don’t speak Tamil, or Slovenian, or Xhosa. Not one word!
Should I feel bad about that?
Should I apologise, and say, “Hey, I’m really sorry about my bad Tamil, and my bad Slovenian. Oh, and my terrible Xhosa, sorry about that, too. And sorry about my Navajo, and my Finnish, and my Korean, and…”
Okay, Martin, okay. We get it.
Hopefully, you see how unnecessary it is now.
Even if your English is bad, so what? Don’t be sorry; go get better instead. Never apologise for your English!
4. Set Challenges To Build Your Confidence in English
I want you to do something for me.
Pause the video and write down three situations where you would feel nervous about speaking English.